Well, picking can be one of the things that can slowly destroy any partnership.
When we pick, criticize or bring negativity in everything changes dramatically.
No one likes to be picked on or criticized.
Often we would have learned this behavior from our family or recent past.
If you wish to maintain a good relationship....DON'T PICK!!!!
By its very nature it is such an easy habit to begin and then continue to do.
Although we might justify it to ourselves that it is for their own good that is not always the case.
Behind picking lies control and fear.
The control is us wanting our own way because, of course, we know best.
The fear is also prompting us and usually, it is actually our own fear.
If you have been picky and critical try to stop doing it. Not much comes from it that is positive and in the long run, it can alienate your partner, family or friends.
Basically, it is a negative way to relate to others and like all habits can become embedded in your life.
Make a decision to stop every time you begin to pick and I think your relationship will improve.
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