There are three important things we all need for a successful loving relationship.
They are love, chemistry and compatibility.
When there is trouble in paradise usually one or more of these is missing or diminishing.
Now being in love is crucial and even though we all love somewhat differently being in love about the same amount works best.
Next comes chemistry that wonderful electric connection which involves attraction and sexuality. It is often what propels the relationship forward at the start.
Lastly, is being able to live and spend time happily in one another's world. Romantic relationships still require this element because most of our day is not spent in bed. Yes, I know what you were thinking!
When we begin to have problems it can come from one of these areas. Try to look at your relationship from these three places. Then you can fix up or give more attention to the flagging area.
Remember that you might both be struggling in the same area or maybe have completely different areas to one another. For you, it might be the chemistry one while for them it could be the love section.
Speak to each other in truth and try to find ways to improve things.
If you have had a good relationship it is worth the effort to make it even better. True love is patient and tries to give the other person what they need.
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